All I know is that once you have children, you put them before anything you’re feeling or going through. Today, my daughter walked into the room and I said, ‘I love you, baby,’ and she said, ‘Well, I don’t like you,’ and I said to my wife, ‘The meaner she is to me, the more I love her.’
But as soon as I joined ‘Six Feet Under’, I felt like I was finally doing something again that the fans really loved, and I could stop being afraid of ‘Clueless’ fans!
I had a lot of chaos in my very early years before I was old enough to know what was going on, and then I just skated through the rest of my childhood without dealing with it.
I knew I was going to love my daughter, but I had no idea how much I would love her.
I love comedies. I love watching them. I think I’ve always been afraid of being on them a little bit.
I personally would rather raise my child in New York. It seems like it would be easier to make sure she or he gets a whole bunch of experience and understanding of the world. But, people in general think it’s easier to raise a kid when you don’t have so much stuff in your face.
I was always worried with comedy – what if I came to work and I wasn’t in a funny mood? That hasn’t been an issue.
I’m a dad now and whatever I’m doing in life I usually put a lot of effort into it – usually too much effort, so it kind of comes off ridiculous at times.
I’m married now, but back when I had girlfriends, you were always wondering if they liked you, and if you liked them enough. You’re together, but the smallest thing could make one of you go ‘You know what? This isn’t working!’
If you think about movies that are adapted from books, they never feel like enough. There’s always too much cut out in the end. You either make a five hour movie or you leave out stuff that should be in there.
In ‘Law & Order,’ your main job is to stay out of the way of the plot. On another show you’d receive your script and see stuff that seems challenging and feel excited that the writers thought highly enough of you to write it for you.
In general, you don’t want to move your kids when they’re teenagers. They’re not going to be happy with you.
In your twenties, if you have any amount of complexity in your childhood, or any trauma that you haven’t dealt with, it comes out. That’s why you have a lot of artists that don’t make it through.
It’s something that people relate to – and I hope my kid doesn’t relate to – but there’s a level of believability in playing complex characters. You know, Christopher Walken has done some hilarious comedies, De Niro. There’s great room for complexity and darkness to do well in comedies.
Maybe they’ll start making serialized movies. I watched the first couple seasons of ’24’ and it’s really fun. I bought the DVD and watched it over a month or so and it’s great. It’s like reading a novel. It has a lot of possibilities that are more difficult to accomplish with a film.
There’s a lot of actors out there or people who want to be actors. It’s unique to find somebody that, you know, needs to be an actor.
There’s a really unique relationship between a single parent and their child. Marriages so easily break up. There’s kind of this temporary deal about marriages. That’s one of the things that makes it stressful, and that’s something that’s nonexistent in a parent-child relationship.
There’s not a lot of room anymore for what I call ‘made-up’ drama. The drama comes from real places now – marriage takes work and focus, the kid stuff takes patience and commitment. And if you don’t grow as people and as a couple, within all of that, then you’ve got some real drama.
Well, I was coming off of being on ‘Law & Order,’ and I was a little worried that it might be the end of my career – I’ve never been one of those actors with a lot of confidence that the next good job will come along.
When I was a kid, I liked Superman. When I got a little older, I liked Wolverine. And then I found girls.
When you have kids, you just love them. It’s similar to when you’re in love with someone. You just think they are so cool and want to be around them all the time, but what if she starts being embarrassed and only giving me charity visits? I want her to actually want to see me, so that’s what I’m going for!
You can’t have a happy family if you don’t have a happy marriage.